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After Abuse: Apology vs Reparations

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***Warning: This post covers high level topics of abuse and conflict***

A few weeks ago my counselor and I talked about cycles of abuse. How there seems to be the concept that one can justify abuse if one just apologizes afterwards, it’s all ok. But we know it’s not, deep down – because every form of abuse leaves a scar on the subconscious. If we try to forget the abuse or stuff it down, it could come back to haunt us at the most inopportune time, place, or with someone not even connected to the event. If we also accept the apology and leave the abuse unchallenged, then this cycle continues and can lead to trauma bonding. This is when I learned more about repairing versus apologizing. That an apology means nothing without some form of action or change behind it, which is how we get the term reparations. Think of your time as currency, how was it spent? Was your time stolen? Would you be willing to give your time away again?

One of the reasons why this is particularly on my mind today is because I saw a infographic on Facebook that described “Rupture & Repair.” This image was created by Lindsay Braman, a licensed Therapist & Psychoeducator who not only practices counseling, but also creates art to help illustrate psychological concepts that promote healing. Her “Rupture & Repair” graphic helps illustrate that an apology sometimes isn’t always enough and that avoiding real conflict by trying to tackle the issue head doesn’t solve the problem. Also, if we keep avoiding conflict all together, we never get to flex (or in some cases even learn) how to solve conflicts in a healthy way. Instead one needs to move beyond the apology by accepting what they did, repeat back the scope of the damage, and then present an action plan how to move forward together in the future.

“Rupture is inevitable, repair takes work.”

Lindsay Braman, https://lindsaybraman.com/, 2021

The reason I think this is so important to talk about is because so many us us never learned the proper coping skills in the first place. We don’t know how to act or even identify the situation at hand. We need to expand our tool belt to include healthy conflict resolution and be able to identify when it is not being applied. I know that is why I am in counseling. All of our relationships, whether it’s a friend, boss, parent, neighbor, ect., need time and energy spent into growing something healthy and positive. It can be very easy to try and take control of a situation through bullying or even abuse. Those on the receiving end might not even know there is a problem and continue to accept the resolution with an apology. A heart full apology is only skin deep if you don’t have an action plan to end the cycle. A truth of life is we can never avoid conflict or dismiss the aftermath of it.

So ask yourself, have I been part of this cycle before – either as the abused or maybe the instigator? Were there real changes made? Was the apology superficial? Could is possibly happen again? What can you do differently? Will the other party really willing to work with me, or am I hitting a dead end? Are they willing to invest the time with me as I am willing to invest with them? Then, the next time there is conflict, do the work. Call out what just happened, take responsibility, identify the damage that it did from their perspective, understand your role, and make a plan to work together and move forward. If your conflict partner is not willing to put in the work, then it might be time to be honest with yourself and recognize the relationship might not be what you think it is. Sometimes you do just have to walk away. If you do make a break though, and start practicing repairing versus just apologizing, you will find that you will not only grow a stronger relationship, but become a stronger person.

If you want to learn more about “Rupture & Repair”, or just browse through inspiring mental health cartoons that promote change, make sure you check out Lindsay Braman’s website at https://lindsaybraman.com/ or follower her on facebook at https://www.facebook.com/lindsaybraman/.

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Why I “Disgruntley” Bought An iMAC® M1 – And I now I love it

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This isn’t so much a review as much as its my story on how I ended up choosing an iMac over a custom PC. I thought 2001 was the year I would purchase a new computer. The task at hand ended up being a lot harder than I originally thought because I had already made the hard decision to beak-up with Apple® after being a loyal user since 2005. In the end I ended up reversing my original decision to ditch Apple and being surprised by how happy I did.

One, when I went ahead and decided to get a Mac back in 2017, I got one of the newer (yet basic) MacBook Pro®. Ever since I owned that computer though, I had nothing but issues with it. On top of that, not only did I have to get major hardware replacements on the motherboard but also with two new mac (A powerhouse of a Macbook Pro and an higher-end iMac) bought in 2016 and 2019 respectively at my place of employments. Both ended having tremendous issues right out of the gate, even with having a good amount of RAM and being optimized as best as possible to carry my video workload. I still was constantly having issues with hard drives, disk recording failures, as well as just basic memory RAM issues.

Now before you blame the user, remember: I used to sell and fix Mac computers and I wasn’t abusing them like a typical user would. Even with trying to apply best practices, I feel like I spent more time on the phone with Apple care most days than I was able to with customers. (BTW, if you buy a Mac product and you don’t get Apple Care – major bad decisions. Apple Care is such a life saver and is worth the investment) Even the tech support and Apple Care reps had been having trouble with the new Intel line, so it just seemed Mac was losing its hold on the stability it always promised. (Not to mention the crazy amount of new lawsuits coming out about many of them lately) Either way, let’s just say I was spooked.

Let’s fast forward back to the present now. It’s 2021, and I’m now out trying to heal up from my work injuries and needing a computer to start building my skills on. And I think to myself, well, I should get a PC this time around. That way, when I am ready to go ahead and start creating again so I can launch my own media presence, I’ll be a setup with a computer that can do it all. With a PC I can get more functionality out of it as a workstation, game host, and live streaming powerhouse. It would be a fun project that my partner and I could build and finally have compatible machines to play together on. Hilariously enough, that wasn’t the case.

I started doing my really big research in March. I knew the trouble about graphic card stock for the NVIDIA® 3800, but I was finding that the NVIDIA 3900’s were a little easier to come buy if I had a company custom build one for me. Cool, I thought, I’ll just have to start researching the other components to build a computer: processor, ram, motherboard. I also needed to pick monitors – and that took me a good month to research too as I wanted a set that had a high refresh rate for gaming, but a true color palette for artwork. I built my list of new creative programs as well, since many of the ones I used on the make weren’t transferable. It took time, but I finally came up with the perfect computer, within budget, and completely could stand up to the current (now discontinued) iMac Pro.

Well, as we know in the world of tech, things can change fast. By the time I was ready to hit the purchase button on a PC, the prices had jumped up about $1500 by mid April alone. Now anyone who has been actually following any type of tech and computer news right now, know that computers PC parts have been inflate for quite some time due to demand, scalping, and chip and labor shortages shortages during the pandemic, so this priced me out. The wait times before getting the computer were as long as 6 to 8 weeks, so this didn’t fit the timeline my doctors were hoping to get me back up to. To throw me off even more, Apple discontinued their iMacPro. So now, unless I wanted to purchase an iMac, I’d have to get it refurbished or try and find hidden stock somewhere. So now I was weighted down by my own goals: Trying to purchase a comparable PC to the iMac Pro I needed was now MORE expensive than just buying the iMacPro and I would miss being able to start training for PT. That’s of course when Mac announced the new iMac M1’s.

The Apple M1 iMac computer announcement didn’t really give me a lot of time to second guess the purchase, but maybe that was a good thing. If you pre-ordered, you could instantly get a computer or get it by mid June. Was it the end-all powerhouse I needed? No. But for the price and the functionality for what I needed to be able to do over the summer into fall, it was perfect. The price was also low enough that I could still afford to buy the PC I wanted with a little bit of saving to recoup what I lost buying this. So I jumped on board the Mac train again and put in my order.

For your reference: I got the 24″ Apple M1 chip with 8-core CPU with 4 performance cores and 4 efficiency cores, 8-core GPU, and 16-core Neural Engine. It has 16GB Ram and 1TB SSD – In Purple (Fun!)

Since I’ve gotten this computer, it behaves far more stable than the previous three Mac’s I’ve have in the past five years. Of course, since my arms aren’t quite ready to do video editing yet, so I haven’t really been able to test it out on that front, but in terms of being able to run multiple programs that suck up RAM like Illustrator or Photoshop it’s been great. Oh, and of course, who forget to mention how many tabs on my browser it lets me keep open so I can multi-task the way I need to. To my surprise this computer actually works out really really well for me. Again, I was ready to break up, so if felt weird going back and ending with a feeling of confidence with my purchase.

In terms of use-case: I’m specifically using it to practice typing and doing work related tasks due to the atrophy caused by delayed PT toward my overuse injury. Being able to sync my iPhone® and iPad® allows me the freedom to create and conduct business from anywhere, which gives me a much needed break from repetitive motions. I’m also using the iMac to go back through older work so that I can work on my archived projects that need to be published. Since this computer has proved to be stable as well, the blessing of being able to open up old back-up hard drives and not have to worry about corruption is fantastic. It’s also a lot easier to open files back up and not have to worry about finding programs to help convert some files over to PC, because obviously, by design, once you go Mac, they make it really hard for you to go back.

Truth be told though, I haven’t been able to benchmark it with any of my video program – which is probably the most important task I need to do on this machine once I am ready. There are plenty of reviews online though that show how the M1 performs and my of my colleagues that use their higher-end M1 Macbooks or Mac minis to edit videos on have been happy. Once I get back into videos, I’ll let you know how this computer fairs crunching them. I still have nightmares over the issues I had with the last Mac last year, so I think I’ll be able to compare them even with so much time passing between them.

Cosmetically, it is also can hold up to the PC I wanted to buy. Obviously, it doesn’t mean anything to buy a computer just so that it looks cool, but I do appreciate the fact that they manufactured it in a lavender color. One functional cosmetic choice is the weight, the fact that the 24″ iMac just so light is actually useful. It is really easy to travel with. I wouldn’t suggest using it like you’re on a laptop, but it means if I need to travel for a long extended period of time, I could bring the computer with me. This will make future work such as live-streaming or just previewing creative work much easier on location. It does make me want to upgrade my phone (since mine is read), but I won’t let them peer pressure me into that.

Some of the downsides of course is the fact that the screen is smaller than I’m used to, many of the programs that I use are still optimized for the Intel chips, and game companies of all don’t always put out a mac version. There are workarounds such as the external monitor I bought for the new PC (HA!), exploring new programs (or just waiting patiently for the updates), and of course Cloud Gaming. Once my arms are fully healed, I am really excited to try out cloud gaming on the iMac such as NVIDIA’s, Stadia, or XBOX’s XCloud. Of course I’ll cross that bridge when its time for it.

While I am happy with my new iMac, I am still diligently watching PC prices and stock to even themselves out. Some of the custom PC companies I was working with before mentioned it could take at least until December before prices make sense and I haven’t found any luck buying parts at cost even after joining several stock watch groups. So if you are looking to upgrade your Mac or still trying to hold out for a new PC, I hope this helps you make an informed decision. Either way, I am happy I decided to give Apple a chance again, let’s just hope they don’t disappoint me this time around.

What do you think about my decision? Would you have waited till PC parts started to go down in price? Would you have waited for the new M1X® or M2® chip coming out? Or was I just not creative enough to figure out how to make a PC work? I’m interested in hearing your thoughts so comment below or course, reach out to me.

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Meet Cirocco – Never Had A Friend Like Her

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Blue, talented in intellect, but a bit of an airhead in person, that’s the best way to describe Cirocco, our Air Genasi Arcane Trickster “Helper.” While she doesn’t take on your typical rogue characteristics in charisma or criminal activity, she makes up for it with her speed and smarts to support her traveling companions. One traveling companion of course, she has bonded with a year before the campaign: the crusty old tiefling barbarian Rellik who is trying to manage her constant presence as well as his own surprising new magical abilities.

Currently, Cirocco’s backstory before Rellik’s is a mystery not only to her new companions, but to herself as well. So far all we know is that she has a an unfamiliar accent, enjoys meeting new people, and loves delicious food/drink. That is of course whenever Rellik allows her to indulge. Since the campaign just started, I can’t talk too much about her. When more is revealed as we progress into the game, we can really start picking her apart. At this point though, Cirocco will remain a magical enigma full of wonder and need to feel useful.

While we can’t get into backstory, we can get into why and how I built her. When I was first approached about joining the one shot that would be held in Laraven, the same world that Pip exists in. We knew that this one shot had the possibility of becoming a long term campaign, so when creating a character there needed to be a balance. The group itself needed a character with high intelligence to help counterbalance a more offensive line. I personally am still getting use to magic casting characters. I really loved my high intelligence artificer guest character Pip, but still struggled making sure I understood all the inner-workings. Also, as much fun as my bard Arietta is to play, trying to figure out how to balance her with the team was tricky. With this in mind, I was a bit skeptical in drawing up a wizard or a druid. I wanted something in between. That’s when I remembered, I never got to officially play my original arcane trickster. I thought that this would be a good way to help me not only learn how to be a better spell caster, but also a better ranged support member as well. At the time too, there was no other rogue – yes, a surprise to me too.

The arcane trickster rogue also was a good pick to complement Rellik’s character drawn up by my partner Blaine. This is his first real chance to play a campaign, so we wanted to make sure that my character could help out when needed as he figured out the mechanics of D&D. We decided on barbarian, because Blaine wanted a tank character, but we buffed him by taking the path of Wild Magic. We came up not only with two solid characters, but also a really unique and silly partial backstory to explain why we’re inseparable and how Rellik obtained his magic. It also gave me the excuse to finally pay a Genasis, something I really could figure out how to incorporate in other games.

With some imagination and a very agreeable GM, we was able to create a really fun and exciting characters to play with a group of first time adventurers. I can’t wait to tell her story and see how she evolves as she travels with the rest of the team over the continent of Laraven.

What do you think of her character so far? Would you do anything differently? If you were going to create a high intelligence character to support a group of new players looking to play D&D, how would you do it?

Cirocco

Air Genasi Rogue 5 

Alignment: Chaotic Neutral

Background: Far Traveler

STR: 8 DEX:16 CON:14 INT: 17 WIS: 14 CHA: 11

Expert: Arcana & Stealth

Proficient: Acrobatics, Insight, Perception, Slight of Hand

 

Arcane Trickster
– Spellcasting
– Mage Hand Legerdemain

Feature: All Eyes On You

Special Skill: Annoying People (Not Official)

Weapons of Choice
– Rapier 1d8+3 w/Piercing
– Dagger X2 1d4 +3 w/Piercing 
– Dagger X2 1d6 +3 w/Piercing 

Armor
– Invoked Magic Armor – AC 11

Tools: Thieves Tools, Pan Flute

Personality Traits

  • Nothing can shake my optimistic attitude.
  • I have different assumptions from those around me concerning personal space, blithely invading others’ space in innocence, or reacting to ignorant invasion of my own.

Ideals

  • Adventure. I’m far from home, and everything is strange and wonderful! (Chaotic)

Bonds

  • I hold no greater cause than my service to my people.

Flaws

  • I have a weakness for the new intoxicants and other pleasures of this land.

Spells

  • Cantrip: Gust, Mage Hand, Prestidigitation
  • 1st Level: Earth Tremor, False Life, Mage Armor, Tasha’s Caustic Brew
  • 2nd Level: Pass Without A Trace, Lesser Restoration Darkness
  • 3rd Level: Levitate

Notable Items

  • Peach Pie
  • Bag of Holding
  • Rudimentary Map of the Route to Oasis

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How Discord Recently Changed My Life

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There are very few innovations that I feel the need to tout. When things like ICQ, Facebook, YouTube came out – they changed the very nature of the way I communicate and connect to those around me. When they came out, friends and family never heard the end of it. ICQ allowed me to connect and talk to new people all around the globe with similar interests. Facebook supplanted the need to have a website (for awhile) as if was easier to post my adventures and upload images there than manually doing so on my server. YouTube and Twitch basically replaced the need for TV, preferring to support smaller content creators than being stuck watching the same old programming being featured on cable. I feel like Discord is very much a new platform that will eventually find its way to influence they way we gather and connect to each other.

One of the reasons I am gung-ho toward Discord is because there are other companies already trying to launch their own versions. Just this week, I was asked to help my peers understand how to implement Microsoft Teams at work. The more I worked with the program, the more I realized – this is Discord. When we dropped our phone lines and Skype to implement Fuze a year earlier, I noticed the similarities as well. I also joined Slack a year before that and found that Slack’s only advantage was that it was browser based so it could bypass many corporate set firewall settings. Regardless of who came first – it was clear that there is a new trend on how to communicate, where we could gather, and how we could store/share information. The trend is clear, we are Social Networked Exhausted, it’s time to bring back the fluidity of the message board with the clarity of live streaming.

Back in the early 2000’s I used to run and moderate a number of RPG and Sailor Moon Fan Based message boards. The way one would need to communicate was set by hierarchal rules and boundaries. You had moderators to help organize and keep the channel fun for everyone. You could separate out topics and interests so conversations could stay linear and not get hijacked. Those who didn’t follow the rules got the ban hammer. Now I’m not saying Facebook and other internal corporate internal applications don’t have this option. There is plenty on the backend settings to help you, but I feel that most groups or topics can lose the fluidity and organization of a message board when you start to have either too much activity or not enough. I also feel like many of those that start groups also don’t know how to use all the features that help them connect to the very audience they wish to engage. That’s where Discord comes into play.

I started using Discord in 2017 to connect for my D&D games. Discord itself though has been around for much longer than that, and rose to popularity around 2015. Discord is a combination of instant messaging and message board. You can set up your own hierarchies, moderate (or install bots to mod) the content for you, and the best part is you can communicate not only in realtime – but open up real conversations with people live through their voice chat feature. This voice chat feature is probably one of the more spotless connections I’ve been able to speak on. Skype, Fuze, Facebook, and many of the corporate Goto Meetings constantly dropped. Discord on the other hand is clear. You can easily drop in and out of public conversations. You can hold your own private conversations as well. Since its built for gaming and not for business, it doesn’t have a scheduling function, but I am sure someone somewhere already made a bot for that. The big thing is, the program lends itself to being used as a real-time communication platform. It’s not meant to be turned off, rather than left on. I feel like on the corporate applications side of things, it relied on too many different places to gather all the information you needed. With Discord you can actually collaborate within the platform itself. its like being able to hold a scrum meeting while working at the same time.

Now I see Discord really making an impact going forward as we start to thing about how we can connect better on a global scale as well as more companies start to shit to embrace a more remote gig economy. The reason why it has changed my life so far is the fact that I no longer have to rely on trying to set up physical meet-ups with people to have real conversations about topics I like. Discord made playing D&D so much easier because we can literally roll out of bed and get online in an instant. It’s hard to find other people who are interested in Eygptology that also aren’t going to spam you with “Ancient Alien Facts.” With Discord you can now control the caliber of people in the group and the type of content that is being shared. A major win for the fans of #factchecking! You can also easily start a Discord group to connect and run your business. Want to meet up with weird people to just share memes and a sick sense of humor – Discord. Want to connect to anyone in an instant anywhere in the world (provided they have internet, a computer/mobile, and the program itself)? Discord baby!

Discord isn’t without its own limitations though. I doubt many corporations are going to want to use the same program to conduct business as I subscribed to tentacle porn on. The same being said that a server could also get congested with a couple of enthusiastic members, making it hard to read a linear conversation. We still don’t have live streaming yet, something that would give us the option to be able to give presentations or share what we are currently working on with others privately. They also do not have a record feature. That is one thing I loved about Fuze – you could essentially create a backlog of virtual meetings and presentations that you could share with anyone that had permissions. So far, you are relying on 3rd parties like Twitch or OBS to do that for you.

Regardless though, I see myself using Discord now as a way to connect and communication. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram are all great marketing tools and a way to passively communicate with you audience. If you want to communicate though as if you have unlimited people in your living room, Discord is the way to go. It’s deff worth learning to use the tool, because as we move forward and business practices start to change, so will the tools. And I have a very strange feeling they will start looking and bevacing like Discord. So get a jump start now, jump into the program if you haven’t already. See how it could change how you do business or communicate to those you wish to communicate with.

What is your favorite way to communicate long-distance? Have you tried Discord? What are you thoughts on the trend for social media tools?

A Surprise Daughter Date!

A Surprise Daughter Date!

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I had never been very close with my own mother growing up. When I lost her to cancer at the tender age of 8, I had always wished that we had more time. Since the day I saw the double lines on my pregnancy strip appear, I imagined taking my child on special dates – just the two of us. Then I found out my little nugget was a girl. I cried. I could feel my mom with us right there.

I would honour her and do what she wasn’t able to. To whisk my little girl away from school in the afternoon and take her out for a special surprise treat to the fancy baker’s downtown. We’d sip herbal teas and clink our teacups after the many practice sessions I received in the playroom. Walking through the high tea room hand-in-hand, I gulped the lump in my throat and smiled. I knew my mother was sharing this moment with us.

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Glamour On A Budget

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During my post-University days, working as an intern at Vogue, job-hunting on the side – I learned to keep up with the fashion elite, while being financially savvy. No lipstick, perfume, dress is worth forking over tons in interest fees to your credit card of choice.

How did I do it? It wasn’t easy – but over time I accumulated tips on finding the best deals, including when to buy and where. Trust me – you can have your cake, and leave your fat wallet too! Let’s start with the basics.

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How I Lost 10 Pounds

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Meet Arietta – Just Dumb Fun.

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Pink, pink, and more pink. That’s the character I am currently playing in an international home-brew game called Weary Travelers. Arietta is a bouncy blond bombshell bard that is a mix of airhead, bubblegum, and pop music. It is really fun since this is the GM’s first time running a game. He originally played in Ruins in Kelvaria with me and I guess I didn’t annoy him enough so that he would ask me to join his game. So I made Arietta to finish the job. *EVIL CACKLE*

Since we are currently still playing the game, I can’t get into too much backstory so I don’t ruin the fun. This page will update as the character develops more and the party finds out about her past. With that being said, I can talk about her personality and who she is as a person.

At the beginning of the game we meet Arietta after she got kicked out of the Bard College she was studying in. When she was attending school though, she was a proud remember of the sorority house Upsi Lupsi Phi. That’s where she met her best friend Sylvie (Slyvia). She also found a great study partner and good friend Donavan after she helped beat some bullies off of him. Dumb luck would have it though, that she found herself going to school with her arch nemesis Vanessa Vina Valhallan.

Arietta wasn’t the smartest cookie and she preferred to do things her own way when it came to barding. While normally following a strict code of ethics and morals, she does occasionally bend them if she feels its needed to further a better cause. That’s exactly how she ended up getting kicked out in the first place: what’s a little MUI when your friends are in trouble? Maybe its because you don’t have any friends Master Gloria Bloom, hun, HUH?!

Now homeless and penniless, Arietta must figure out how to pay for college tuition now that she lost her scholarship. She also refuses to tell her parents about her current enrollment “problem” as to save face in the shadow of her perfect sister. That’s how she met her merry band of wear travelers. A collective group just trying to make coin by doing odd jobs and errands about the continent. Arietta jumped at the chance to earn some money, help the people, but most of all, rock out on her pink autoharp.

So far Arietta has helped a small town rid themselves of their Yedi problem, hunted a Blvark, saved a precious baby dragon princess, found and lost the most spectacular hat to the Hat Gang (curses!), fought a undead servants, a faced a lich witch and her troll, fished some vicious anglers out of the dark of caves, helped two mountain giant brothers reconnect, discovered an ancient underground city, saved her comrade from death with a little song, discovered a unicorn, and last but not least – fought some cave penises. WEHW!!

Currently Arietta and the gang are helping their teammate investigate why he is wanted for murder to help clear his name. Along he way they are learning more about each other and discovering their place in the world – of course as Arietta rocks it out along the way.

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Aasimar Bard Lvl 6

Alignment: Lawful Good

Background: Redacted

STR: 8 DEX:12 CON:12 INT: 9 WIS: 12 CHA: 20

Expert: Acrobatics & Persuasion

Proficient: Arcana, Deception, History, Insight, Performance, Stealth

Languages
– Common
– Celestial
– Draconic

College of Lore
– Cutting Words
– Additional Magical Secrets

Weapons of Choice
– Rapier 1d6 w/Piercing +3 
– Dagger 1d8+1d6 w/Bludgeoning & Cold +4
– Autoharp – Inspiration

Armor
– Leather Armor – AC 15

Tools: Beer Pong

Personality Traits

  • I do not place myself above other folk. We all have the same blood.
  • Redacted

Ideals

  • Independence. I must prove that I can handle myself without the coddling of my family.
  • Redacted

Bonds

  • I will face any challenge to win the approval of my family.
  • Redacted

Flaws

  • I’m horribly jealous of anyone who outshines my handiwork. Everywhere I go, I’m surrounded by rivals.
  • Redacted

*Redacted – Hidden backstory that could influence players choices. 

Spells

  • Cantrip: Cure WoundsLight, Vicious Mockery, Message, Dancing Lights, Eldritch Blast
  • 1st Level: Cure Wounds, Dissonant Whispers, Thunderwave
  • 2nd Level: Cloud Daggers, Crown of Madness, Hold Person
  • 3rd Level: Tiny Hut, Aura of Vitality, Hypnotic Pattern

Notable Items

  • Old Halloween Costume “Sexy Barbarian”
  •  Porous Rock
  • Silk Panties made by Cacao
  • Rooper tooth
  • Pretty Cave Mushroom
  • Luminous Body Paint
  • Magic Talking Cloak

Easy & Stylish Brunch Ideas

Easy & Stylish Brunch Ideas

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